The holiday season is supposed to be all about joy and togetherness, right? But let’s be real: sometimes it just feels heavy. If you’re feeling a little down around Christmas, you’re definitely not alone. I get it—this time of year can bring up all sorts of feelings, especially if family relationships are a bit rocky or if you’ve had your share of difficult times. The good news? You’re never truly alone because God is right there with you.

God is Always There

When things get tough, it’s comforting to remember that God is walking alongside us, even in our saddest moments. Romans 8:28 reminds us that “all things work together for good to those who love God.” That’s such a comforting thought! It means that even when life feels messy, there’s a bigger plan at play. Those tough times can actually help shape us into who we’re meant to be.

Cherishing My Children

I’m so grateful for my son and daughter, with whom I share a close bond. Their laughter and love fill my heart with joy, especially during the holiday season. In the past, we have created special memories together—baking cookies, decorating the tree, and enjoying movie nights. The remembrance of these moments me that even when life is challenging, the love we share makes everything worthwhile.

I also have older daughters whom I may not be as close to, but my love for them remains strong. I hold onto the hope that, in time, we can build our relationships further. Family can be complicated, but love doesn’t fade; it evolves.

Finding Support in Community

While family dynamics can be challenging, leaning on friends and community can make a world of difference. I’ve found that connecting with others who understand what you’re going through can be incredibly healing. Friends often step in to fill the gaps, offering their love and support when family relationships feel strained. Even though I spent Christmas Day lying in bed, a lot of my friends text me and invited me places, simply asked how I was doing, or just wished me a merry Christmas.

I remember one year feeling particularly low during the holidays. A good friend invited us over for a gathering, and it turned out to be just what I needed. Surrounded by warmth and laughter, I felt a sense of belonging that lifted my spirits. It’s moments like those that remind me how important our connections are.

Sharing Love with Others

This year, I created several crafts that I gave as gifts. I made three Owala tumblers featuring a special logo I designed, which includes a cross, the Maysville logo, and the Ohio State University logo, for another mom to share. The Lord inspired me to give them to her, and I found that creating has been incredibly therapeutic for me. It brings me so much joy to share these gifts with people who appreciate them.

I also helped my daughter, Alyssa, make six sets of coasters for people who may not have the warmest feelings toward me. Despite that, I was determined to finish what she had started. I find peace in my heart; while I can’t control how others feel, I can choose to spread love and kindness.

I also completed some other crafts for important people in Noah and my life. I’ve included some photos at the end 🫣

Reflecting on Growth

The holidays also serve as a time for reflection. I think about all the lessons I’ve learned through the ups and downs. Each challenge has shaped me and brought me closer to my faith. It’s reassuring to know that God has a plan for us, even when we can’t see it. That assurance helps me stay grounded and hopeful.

Celebrating Togetherness

At the end of the day, it’s about togetherness—whether it’s with my close son and daughter, friends, or even new connections made during this season. Celebrating the love we share can help us push through the sadness and embrace the joy that’s still there, waiting to be found.

Conclusion: A Heart Full of Hope

As we navigate this holiday season, let’s keep our hearts open to the love surrounding us. Embrace the moments with your children, cherish your friends, and lean on your faith. While sadness may visit, it doesn’t get to stay. We have the power to create joy, spread love, and find hope in every situation.

This Christmas, let’s hold onto the promise that we’re never alone. God is with us, guiding us through the tough times and celebrating with us in the good. Together, we can make this season meaningful and filled with love. As my boyfriend has told me every day for the last three years, I feel led to tell you : You are loved, you are supported, and you are never alone.

• I’ve included some photos of my crafts that have kept me busy during this tough time