For the past nine years, my children have been the center of my world. Outside of being with them, I find it challenging to connect with activities that once brought me joy, such as crafting. Lately, I’ve been reflecting deeply on who I am beyond my role as a parent, and I’m still in the process of discovering what truly inspires me.

I have been facing a difficult battle with depression, yet I believe I am managing to hold myself together through it all. During this time, I have made the conscious decision to distance myself from certain people in my life. Trust has become a fragile and precious thing for me, especially after experiencing recent betrayals by those I once held close. While I still maintain limited contact with some of these individuals, I am setting firm boundaries to protect my emotional well-being.

I live by a personal mantra inspired by the poem Let Them: if someone triggers negative emotions within me, I open the door and allow them to walk away—without needing to explain or justify my choice. I recognize that my mental health and emotional peace are paramount, and I have no room for negativity or resentment from others. Life has already presented me with enough challenges to face on my own.

Moving forward, I am committed to surrounding myself with uplifting, positive people who encourage growth and kindness. If you have insights or experiences about overcoming struggles with trust and negativity, I would be grateful to hear what you have learned.

Thank you for taking the time to read this. Let’s all strive to make today meaningful and filled with hope. 🖤